Actually just got it to work! I searched HP's website for "Vista xw4100" and the first hit was about no sound after upgrading. (I always start with EE and have never had success with HP's forums).
http://forums13.itrc.hp.com/service/forums/bizsupport/questionanswer.do?admit=109447627+1234196102835+28353475&threadId=1098756The last post gave the answer: Download and unzip the sound files for the xw6200. Update the driver manually, no auto searching or choosing, through device manager (the auto install will fail).
Now my internal speaker is sounding sounds.