Wow, two days and no posts? I guess it is vacation season.
Anyway, I seemed to have gotten the issue resolved, hopefully for good. There were many posts in EE that helped me out and I seemed to have fixed a lot of things that weren't working right. For anyone else having this issue, they aren't kidding, be sure your DNS server only points to itself for DNS in your network settings. Pointing my two DCs (one hosting DNS) only to the DNS server seemed to fix the last of my bugs.