Hello,
Outlook is just a window into the mailbox on the Exchange server. The ItemAdd and ItemChange events only fire in Outlook when Outlook is used to add or change an item in the mailbox. When the mailbox is modified outside Outlook, those events don't fire. Outlook simply refreshes its view to reflect the current state of the mailbox.
To capture changes as the occure on the server, you would need to write event sinks that are installed on the Exchange server itself.
JJ