Some firewalls make the traffic from outside appear to come from an internal IP address. If you have subnet relaying enabled then Exchange will allow the external traffic to relay. This is what looks like is happening here.
For the correct operation of Exchange you do NOT need to have any relay option enabled. If you do need to have relaying enabled on an IP address basis then lock it down to either specific IP addresses or use a second SMTP virtual server that cannot be seen from the outside world.
Simon.