Hi Mco32,
To access the SQL configuration manager:
Navigate through the start menu to Microsoft SQL Server 2008 > Configuration Tools and click on SQL Server Configuration Manager.
Alternatively you can Go to Start > Run and type SQLServerManager10.msc
When it appears, in the Left hand tree view, expand the item "SQL Server Network Configuration" and click on Protocols for where is the name of the SQL Server you wish to configure.
You will then notice that a list of protocols will appear in the right hand pane. Ensure that TCP/IP and Named Pipes are enabled by right clicking on each one and selecting Enable.
Hope this helps :-)
Drew.